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http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/local/broward/sfl-flbjuviemurder0107sbjan07,0,5681303.story?coll=sofla_tab01_layout
I don’t normally speak about certain things, but in this case I need to unload my thoughts. For those who know me I do not read nor watch the news. I feel it is all about the negatives and nothing about positives. I am an optimistic person by nature and have trouble finding the negative side to any situation.
My co-workers often talk about news and I overheard this. I generally get the cold shoulder when it comes to what I think about a topic. If mine doesn’t agree with their point of view they argue trying to persuade me of why I am wrong and why they are right. Instead of listening to what I have to say. Well no one can sensor me in my own blog so here goes.
I don’t care about past convictions and about Lionel Tate and how he was tried. Every situation is different as every child is different. I believe there is a huge problem in the world regarding the rearing of children. By no means and I stating that anyone is necessarily a bad parent or am I accusing anyone of anything. Right now many kids are getting into lots of trouble because they lack proper adult supervision. I don’t necessarily blame the child involved unless they have the mental capacity to make adult decisions.
A 12 year old child should not have been babysitting a 17 month toddler. I have an 18 month old. Never in a million years would I ever allow anyone under the age of 18 to babysit for me. I am 23 and I have trouble keeping up with him, why would I ask someone half my age to watch him for me?
I do not know this family personally nor do I know anything about them. I am speaking in general terms and using this situation as a basis for what my beliefs are. I am not placing blame on any party nor am I an expert.
If a responsible adult was present it does not seem very likely that this would have occurred. Sure the children in this situation were related, though they were unaware of this. This 12 year old possibly had no prior experience with a child that age and if he did I am certain that an adult was nearby.
While what occurred was inexcuseable, there may or maynot be anyone at direct fault. The adults who left these children in this situation should have known better and this pre-teen should have better. But I place more fault in the adults than the child.
Again I say that I do not know this family or anything about them that was not covered in the article that I have linked. I just have to wonder if this 12 year old was able to watch whatever tv he wanted without adult censorship. If the adults didn’t censor his television then there is a high likelyhood that violent shows were watched. If they did then I would have to say he learned to hit when angry from someone. He is only 12. Sure he knows what is right from wrong, but did he intend to kill the toddler - probably not.
The questions that need to be explored most are: Why did he pick up that bat instead of calming the child? Why were they left unsupervised?
From what I have said one can say that I do place the blame on the adults who left the children alone.